agreed ashes999 , while stuff willg et moderated if it really does go overboard, as i mentioned in my post, anything can be asked in these forums, it just may not get answered properly. WE could have non muslims that come here and want to ask questions so there is no point in putting restrictions on what can and cant be asked.
So building off all of the proofs on this forum, here is TL:DR ___________________________________________________________________ If the conversation is not business necessary than you should not be doing it. ___________________________________________________________________
A test i use for myself if im in a conversation with someone of the opposite sex. Do we absolutely have to talk due to work school etc.? Are we in a public place? If both are yes your safe.
I get the part you're talking about school, work, gaming etc to avoid flirtation etc but being in public places still doesn't stop you doing naughty stuff. Unless ofcourse you're away from the usual places your friends and family go to.